Doing our best creative work is a fight.
It strikes me this morning that I’ve been saying this often over the past few years. (Maybe it’s becoming my motto or tagline or something.)
I love how Steven Pressfield puts it. In his books — especially The War of Art — he talks at length about that great enemy called resistance.
Pressfield writes that “any act that rejects immediate gratification in favor of long-term growth, health, or integrity,” or, “any act that derives from our higher nature instead of our lower” is sure to elicit resistance.
When you set your sights on doing something of value and something meaningful, rest assured you will face resistance.
If you’ve ever spent so much as a one minute trying to create something of value and substance, then you know first hand that it is a fight to be and stay creative.
But what I love about the fight is that it’s self evident.
If you find yourself facing fear, doubt, shame, difficulty, perplexity, and/or overwhelm when you sit down to do the work then rejoice! All that resistance means you’re trying to do something worthwhile. The resistance is proof that you’re on the right track. Don’t quit.
Seriously. Don’t quit.
But quitting is not what I’m here to talk about. The advice to not quit is common. It’s good advice. You and I need to hear it every day. When I set my watch for 30 minutes, put in my earbuds, shut off the outside world, and make myself write for half an hour I have to remind myself that I’m not allowed to quit.
As a creative person you need boundaries.
You need space to think. You need time to focus on the work at hand while your mind stares up to the stars, discovering new worlds and ideas.
You need time to yourself.
You need at least some level of autonomy to call the shots and draw a line in the sand.
But I have found that in my process of setting up boundaries that help me do my best creative work, a seed of selfishness and narcissism can plant itself.
Don’t let that happen. In the fight to do our best creative work, narcissism is not the destination — generosity is.
Why? Because creativity should, by definition, bring life. You’ve taken something that did not previously exist and now it does.
Which means your best shot at doing your best creative work is to do something that will bring life to others.
As you focus on doing your best creative work, don’t get so absorbed in your own thoughts and your own world that you cease to be generous, kind, outgoing, helpful, and selfless toward others.